Find the right sex toy material for you

Ever wondered what sex toys are made of? Amazingly, they can be made of a variety of different materials. In fact, when you’re choosing a sex toy, it’s no longer a case of simply choosing the right toy for you, but also the right material too.

The material a toy is made of can affect how it will feel when you use it and how good the orgasms will be. If you’re unsure which toy to choose, then here’s a useful guide to 10 of the best sex toy materials.

1. Latex

Latex is widely used as a sex toy material, especially as it can be created to form some super stimulating shapes. Sex toys made from latex tend to feel smooth and be fantastically flexible.

2. Silicone

A popular choice for the luxury and designer sex toy market, silicone produces sex toys that are ultra smooth, firm when required, but also flexible. Silicone toys are often elegantly produced and are chemical-free. A great choice if you can afford it.

3. Elastomer or Elastic Polymer

Modern sex toy

Elastomer or elastic polymer tends to be used in top quality sex toys, as it’s stretchy and flexible. It feels like jelly and can produce some great feeling toys. It doesn’t contain chemicals, like phthalates, and is also latex-free.

4. Smooth Coated Plastic

A classic choice in traditional vibrators and bullets, smooth coated plastic feels smooth, but is also hard. It doesn’t produce flexible toys, but is perfect if you love a good strong vibrator.

5. Metal

Metal is a great material for a sex toy and produces toys that are smooth and rigid. They tend to be cold to touch too, but this can be a good thing!

6. Glass

Glass sex toy

Glass may sound like a strange material for a sex toy, but ultra thick, non-shattering glass produces a surprisingly pleasant toy. Some glass sex toys are even shaped into intriguing, artistic designs. A glass toy feels hard and smooth.

7. Wood

Wood may sound a strange material too, but wood is gaining popularity in the form of eco sex toys. They’re chemical free, may be hand crafted and produced a good strong and exciting sex toy.

8. Ceramic

Ceramic is a relatively new material in the sex toy world, but it’s a popular choice for designer sex toys. It’s safe, strong and hard, plus completely chemical free, and ceramic sex toy serve many needs.

9. Realistic Feel

Some manufacturers specialise in producing toys that feel as natural and realistic as possible. The toys tend to be made from elastomer-type materials, which all fall into the realistic feel material category type.

10. Jelly Rubber

Jelly rubber is a cheap material to use for sex toys, so has helped introduce toys to more people. It feels smooth and rubbery. However, although this used to be a favourite sex toy material, it is gradually becoming less common, as the rubber contains phthlalates, a chemical irritant that some people are allergic to.

There’s nothing more embarrassing then having to open up and empty your suitcase at airport security or customs – and even more so if your sex toys are pulled out. If you’re planning on packing more in your suitcase than your flip flops and bikini this summer, then here are 5 tips for travelling safely with sex toys.

1. Pack your sex toys discreetly

Be prepared for unexpected eventualities by packing your sex toys discreetly. Rather than just dumping them in your suitcase with everything else, put them in a small bag or pouch, or wrap them in a t-shirt. That way, if your case is opened, at least your sex toys will be hidden from view, unless every single item is unpacked.

2. Take the batteries out

Hands up who’s had an embarrassing moment when their bag has started vibrating or buzzing? It’s more common than you may think! To avoid this tricky situation, remember to take the batteries out of your sex toys before you pack them in your suitcase. Of course, don’t forget to pack the batteries in separately, otherwise you could end up really frustrated!

3. Leave your larger sex toys at home

However fond you are of your large dildo, it’s not necessary practical to take it on holiday with you, so leave any large sex toys at home. That certainly doesn’t mean that you can’t take any with you – far from it – just try and pick smaller favourites for your trip. Small can be equally good, after all.

4. Opt for sex toys that have a locking feature

There are some sex toys where it’s not so easy to take the batteries out, such as those that are rechargeable, but to get over the problems, they may well have a lock feature on them instead. This allows you to ‘lock’ the sex toy up, so that it won’t unexpectedly start buzzing or moving around of its own accord in your luggage.

5. Be honest if your bag does get searched

In the worst case scenario, and your bag is called up for a routine search by security, then be prepared to be honest about what your bag contains. Most security guards will have seen or heard all the excuses before and it will be obvious that your vibrator is not a massage tool, back scratcher, lipstick or rubber duck (even if some of them are designed to appear to be like such objects).

Everyone’s got a best sex song. You know, the song that really gets you in the mood, makes you feel sexy or seductive. Sometimes it’s the voice of the singer that sounds erotic and makes you want to melt, on other occasions it’s the pulsating rhythms of the music that are perfect as a backdrop for having sex.

If you want to hot up the action in your bedroom, then we’ve rounded up the six most popular sex songs to get you in the mood!

1. R Kelly – Sex Me

The slow rhythm and sensual lyrics of R Kelly’s Sex Me make is a sure fire hit for many couples. Listen to it at the beginning of an evening to get you both in the mood, or at the end of the night as you’re having sex!

2. Marvin Gaye – Sexual Healing

A classic sex song which is loved by many. If you’re in the mood for new tunes to listen to, then you’ve got to give this one a go.

In fact, Marvin is quite the king of the best sex song, with Lets Get it On  also hugely popular in the sex song stakes.

3. Usher – Seduction

Cool, sophisticated and sexy, as the name suggests, this is the song to put on if you’re trying to seduce a woman.

4. Shaggy – Hey Sexy Lady

If you’re in need of a little help with expressing your feelings, then why not let Shaggy step in with a helping hand?

He’ll be only too happy to declare how he feels when a sexy lady comes his way. If anyone’s still unsure, the video clips are worth a watch!

5. Venga Boys – Boom, Boom, Boom (I Want You In My Room)

This catchy, upbeat song could get you in the mood for some fun loving. Although some of the lyrics are slightly daft, it gets the message straight across that sex is what you’re after!

6. Between the Sheets – Isley Brothers

One for fans of old school music, this classic track by the Isley Brothers focuses on being between the sheets – you’ll both be clear about what’s on the cards after listening to this track.

What do you think of our favourites? Have you any more of your own to add to the list?

It’s not always easy to find time to yourself at Christmas, when you’ve got family staying or friends visiting, but with these exciting sex positions to try out, we’re sure you’ll be longing to slip away for a bit to try them out.

A Christmas Sleigh Ride

A sleigh ride for two

For a great Christmas-themed ride that will send shivers of excitement through you both, why not try this position out?

To get into position, your partner should lie on his back on the bed or floor, then you should lower yourself onto him. Rather than sitting upright, the aim is to lean backwards and rest your arms on his legs.

If you’re flexible, this will be easier, but it’s well worth trying it for the experience alone. The big bonus for women is that your man has easy access to pleasure you externally too!

Silent Night

Silent night, orgasmic night...

If you’re hosting Christmas and have people staying, or are away at friends or family yourself this year, then here’s a position that’s perfect for a quiet spot of sneaky sex.

This position doesn’t involve loads of movement or noise, so shouldn’t make the bed or floor squeak too much. Get your partner to lie on his back with his legs straight out, then slowly lower yourself onto him. First aim for a sitting position, then carefully move your legs back and lie on top of him.

Although it can be tricky getting the position right, once you’re successfully in place, it can be an intimate way of having sex. All you need are small movements, but they can feel great for both of you.

Jiggy Jingle Baubles

Jingle all the way!

Christmas wouldn’t be right without mentions of jingle bells and baubles and this is a great position for jingling his balls!

This position gives women full control and can have men begging for more – fantastic! Your man should lie on his back with his legs slightly apart, then you lower yourself down onto him, facing in the direction of his feet.

You control the pace and get perfect access to his balls for as much jingling as you desire!

Super Pleasure for Singles

And if you’re single this Christmas, then don’t despair!

It’s the perfect time to focus on yourself and bring some much needed end of year pleasure into your life. To add some variety into your self-love, then why not treat yourself to a new sex toy or two?

Anyone for car sex?

If you’ve been off on a hot date, or a day out with your partner, and the need suddenly strikes, your car may seem like the ideal place to be. Of course, if you’ve got the back of a stretch limo to hand, then they’ll be plenty of space to unwind and indulge, but it’s not quite so roomy in the average car.

So, if you’re planning on having sex in the car anytime soon, here are our top six tips for getting the best out of the experience.

1. Pick a private place

When you’re in the mood, thinking about your immediate surroundings may not seem essential, but unless you want to be on public view, then do try and pick a private place. If you’re not into dogging, then remember to turn the car lights off, otherwise you could end up with an audience!

2. Make sure the car is parked

As much as you may be tempted to perform a sex act on your partner whilst they’re driving, it’s really not a safe or advisable option. So before you start getting carried away, always ensure the car is safely parked, with the handbrake on.

3. Choose your position

Car sex positions

Most cars are not that roomy for having sex in and, unless you want to risk the horn getting accidentally sounded, it may be best to choose the back seat or the passenger seat instead of the driver’s seat.

4. Be creative with the seats

Don’t forget that, although you may have a limited choice of seats to use for sex, car seats can be moved backwards or forwards. Tilting the passenger seat back may provide you with extra scope for your sexual experience.

5. Keep a blanket or coat handy

Feeling frisky?

If you’re planning a car sex night, then it’s hand to have a blanket handy. You could use it rolled up as a pillow under you or your partner’s head, under their back or to lie on. Plus, a blanket or coat is useful to be able to throw over you both if someone unexpectedly drives or walks by.

6. Clean up afterwards

Don’t forget to clean up the car afterwards or get rid of any evidence that you’ve had sex, like used condoms. Don’t just throw them out of the window though, dispose of them in a bin.

This is especially so if you’ve borrowed the car, hired it or are using a company car, as you don’t really want the embarrassment of someone finding out what’s actually being going on in the vehicle.

Are you a fan of car sex? Share your favourite car sex tips!

Sex toys for hot boys

A cock ring, or penis ring, is a widely used sex toy that is great for men. It can be made of various materials, such as rubber, leather or metal, and it’s worn on the base of the penis and sometimes the scrotum too.

The main purpose behind a cock ring is to keep the penis hard, but many models also have additional elements, like vibrators, built into them for extra pleasure.

Whether you’re new to cock rings and don’t know how to use cock rings, or used to using them, here five top tips for getting the best out of cock rings.

1. Get it on!

Some experts recommend putting on a cock ring when your penis is soft, but it’s actually easier if you’re semi-erect.

To put the cock ring on, it’s best to place it at the base of your penis, just behind the scrotum. Slowly put one testicle in, then another, then slip your penis in.

2. Try different cock rings

If you’re not totally sure which cock ring is right for you, give yourself the chance to try out several, so that you can find the model or type you prefer.

3. Enhance your cock ring experience with vibrations

There are average cock rings, and super duper cock rings with added excitement. If you want the latter, then it’s well worth choosing a vibrating cock ring, as these will really liven up your day.

A vibrating cock ring will send fantastic sensations through your penis and heighten your orgasm. Why choose a basic one, when it could do this?

4. Share the pleasure with your partner

Cock rings aren’t just a sex toy to be used on your own, they’re great shared with a partner too!

A cock ring can add to your experience when you’re having sex, but the vibrating cock rings can do wonders for your partner too. So why keep it all to yourself, why not liven up your sex and share the pleasures!

5. Getting it off

Cock rings shouldn’t be left on for too long and you certainly shouldn’t fall asleep wearing one. If your penis goes cold, seems to be losing feeling or goes numb, then it’s definitely been on too long and needs to come off pronto.

As a rough guide, 20 minutes should be the optimum time to leave a cock ring on. Don’t worry about taking it off, as you can always use it again very soon!

High heels and stockings, the perfect sexy combination

Men love them and women can feel sexy and powerful wearing them. But there’s now an even better reason to slip on your high heeled shoes, as experts claim that high heels can have health benefits too!

It used to be said that wearing high heels or stilettos could damage your feet, but there’s recently been a bit of a u-turn in beliefs. In fact, podiatrists are saying they’re now seeing more foot injuries in women who wear flat shoes a lot, like ballet pumps and flip flops. Although flat shoes can sometimes be more comfortable, they can also lead to problems such as foot pain, bunions, back ache and shin pain, especially if worn on a very regular basis.

Of course, wearing stilettos all the time can cause problems too, but there are apparently benefits of wearing one inch heels – not least for your sex life! Shoes with heels are said be kinder on your Achilles, can help ease the discomfort in your hamstrings and be better for your posture. Plus, Italian researchers claim women who wear heels may have more fun within the sheets!

If you’re dressing up for a seductive evening, or want to spice up your sex life, then high heels are a great look to go for. They can help make your legs look longer and more elegant, give shorter women a bit more height and look great with stockings and suspenders.

High heeled shoes needn’t be something you just wear out for an evening either – why not wear them when you’re having sex, too? Even if it’s something you’ve never tried before (and even if it feels odd to keep your heels on whilst in or on the bed), wearing heels can make women feel sexier and powerful. They add a bit of extra excitement to proceedings and you can also be assured that men love women in sexy high heels - it can certainly heat up the action in the bedroom.

What better excuse is there to go shopping for and get wearing those killer high heels!

1. Caught having sex in a confession box

Confessional sex

Er, yes, you did read that right. Confession boxes in Catholic churches are traditionally used to go and confess your sins, for example about having impure thoughts about sex. But one couple took things a bit further, by having sex in the confession box!

A parishioner in the Cesena cathedral in northern Italy called police after hearing strange noises, including rustling and groaning, coming from the inside of the confession box when he was attending morning Mass. When the police arrived, they pulled back the curtains surrounding the confession box and revealed a goth-rock couple engaged in oral sex.

The rather dubious excuse for their behaviour was that they were atheists, so for them, ‘having sex in church is like doing it any other place.’ Yeah, right. Not surprisingly, Bishop Antonio Lanfranchi of Cesana-Sarsina wasn’t convinced and planned to have a special ceremony to purify the confession box after their behaviour.

2. Caught having sex on the Queen’s lawn at Windsor Castle

Sex on the menu at Queen's des res

One British couple had a right royal romp, on no less than the Queen’s lawns at Windsor Castle!

Yes, it’s true – the two tourists, both in their 30s and apparently drunk, stripped their clothes off in broad daylight and in full view of other tourists, and had sex on the Queen’s lawn. Clearly ignoring all of the polite, “Please Keep Off The Grass,” signs dotted around the Windsor Castle lawns, the pair were blissfully ignorant of the attention they gained as they indulged in their sexual act.

Other tourists stopped to watch, videoing their sexual activities and taking photos, the Irish Guard sentries opened the windows of their barracks and cheered them on and genteel hotel guests from across the road couldn’t believe the sight before them.

The sexual action is believed to have continued for 10 to 15 minutes, before uniformed and armed Royal Protection Squad Officers arrived on the scene and arrested the pair.

The couple were kept in cells overnight and then cautioned the next day for outraging public decency.
 

3. Caught having sex in a garbage dumpster

Hmm, how about here for a spot of sex?

It certainly can’t win the award for the most romantic place to have sex. In fact, you’ve got to wonder what on earth they were thinking of

Whilst most people happily dump their rubbish into garbage dumpsters, one couple merrily jumped in too and had sex in there!

The couple were found in British Columbia when an officer heard strange noises coming from the inside of a large garbage dumpster. He initially called out, but got no response, so went to investigate. When he shined his torch in, the light revealed a completely nude couple actively engaged in sex.

Not surprisingly, the outcome was that the officer ordered them to disentangle, put their clothes on and get out of the dumpster.

4. Caught having sex on a BMW car

Sex on the hood, anyone?

Not everyone is lucky enough to win the lottery, but things went a bit downhill for this lotto winner when he was caught in a sexual act with his new road companion.

After winning $3.9m in the lotto, one chap in Canada clearly spend some of his winnings by splashing out on a luxury BMW M5 sedan car. However, one night when he was out on the town, he decided to pull up his car and have sex with a woman on the hood of his car.

All in all, not one of his luckiest days, but another he’ll probably remember, if only for very different reasons than his win.

5. Caught having sex on the beach

Sexy beach action

On the surface, it doesn’t sound that crazy. There’s something about having sex on the beach that many people aspire to (probably encouraged by watching too many romantic films), yet the reality of sand getting stuck in awkward places often puts people off the moment they try.

Unfortunately for one couple, they didn’t get a chance to be put off by the way grains of sand feel, as they got caught in the act first. It doesn’t sound like too big a deal, but when you’re having sex on a beach in Dubai, in the United Arab Emirates, where public decency rules, it sure is.

The two Brits who were caught romping on the Dubai beach faced more than just cautions – sex on the beach led to them being fined and imprisoned for three months. The woman, who was allegedly on top when they were caught, also lost her job as a result of it, fired because she violated a decency clause in her contract.

There’s a clear moral in this story – be careful what you do in Dubai, and especially where you act upon your sexual urges!

If you like this, have a read of 15 more of the funniest places to be caught having sex.

Orgasmic woman

Experiencing spontaneous, intense orgasms on tap, without having to indulge in foreplay or have sex first, sounds like the ultimate dream. It’s hard to believe that for some women this really is reality!

Yes, it’s true. Some women really do experience involuntary orgasms, often with little or no stimulation, and they’re so intense, they can last several minutes.

How can orgasms on tap be possible?

As we all know, not all women are blessed with this amazing ability to have orgasms on tap. The reason behind it is a health condition known as persistent genital arousal disorder (or persistent genital arousal syndrome).

One of the more unusual health conditions, persistent genital arousal disorder was only first officially diagnosed in 2001. As the name suggests, women who have persistent genital arousal disorder are almost permanently in a state of arousal. Tasks and activities that most of regard as mundane and run-of-the-mill can trigger orgasms for them, like being in a car, on a train or having a vibrating mobile phone in their pocket.

Are women born with it?

It’s not necessarily something they’re born with – some women find that it just suddenly comes on, like one of the women quoted in this article. It can happen to any women of any age, although research suggests women in the 40s or 50s, or who are post-menopausal, could be affected more.

Surely it’s a great attribute, though?

As much as having orgasms on tap sounds great, for those who have the syndrome, they don’t always feel quite so blessed. As anyone who has lots of sex knows, it can be exhausting, so imagine the effects constant orgasms would have on you.

Some of the women featured herealso describe how being constantly sexually aroused actually had a negative impact on their relationships. Even though men may initially like the idea to have a permanently aroused female partner, not being ever able to fully satisfy her for long could get frustrating.

If you need extra help in the orgasm department…

For those in a different boat entirely, who find it difficult to achieve orgasm, they can be significantly helped by using sex toys. Vibrators, for example, are one of the best selling sex toys for women and help many women achieve great orgasms easily.

Yes, oh yes!

One woman in Britain has made legal history – for being the first person ever to be imprisoned for having noisy sex.

The 48-year-old woman from Tyne and Wear, in the north of England, gained the dubious honour of being jailed for her loud sexual activities after breaking an anti-social behaviour order, or ASBO. She apparently enjoyed indulging in lengthy three hour sex sessions in the privacy of her own home, with her husband, which neighbours claimed were noisy and disturbing.

Early risers - in all departments

She gained the ASBO after her neighbours made 250 complaints about the amount of sexual moaning and other loud noises she produced whilst having sex with her husband. Her neighbours complained about the noise of moaning, groaning, shouting, screaming in ecstacy and the sound of a bed banging against the wall, which typically occurred in the early mornings.

Is it usual for ASBOs to be given for sex?

Normally ASBOs are reserved for anti-social behaviour such as playing loud music or causing a disturbance in certain areas, so it’s pretty unusual for one to be given for having sex at home. After all, a lot of people do make noises – often without realising it - whilst enjoying sex.According to the rules of the sex ASBO given to her, she should have avoiding ‘making excessive noise’ anywhere in England for four years.

Ooooh, yes, yes, YES!

However, the rules of the ASBO didn’t put her off, and less than two days after it was made, she broke it in style with more full on and noisy sex. After being arrested on three occasions over a period of 10 days, she was finally jailed for breaking her sexual noise ASBO.

It’s normal and natural for some noise to be involved when you’re having sex, and can it make the whole process a lot more exciting for both partners. It’s no wonder the neighbours didn’t enjoy the act quite so much, especially since they tended to perform in the early hours of the morning, but it must be tricky to determine the exact level involved in disturbing sexual cries and screams.

So, how noisy do you get when you’re having sex? And could you be at risk from a sexual ASBO for the noise you make?