The traditional striptease is not for everyone, but if you have decided you want to try it out then there is nothing more exiting and erotic for you and your guy. And don’t forget that men truly love the visual and they will be focused on the show and not on your ‘imperfections’. Here are some tips for you to get started.

Striptease tips

1. Get a DVD on stripping, if you don’t want to buy one then you could also rent “9 ½ weeks” or “Striptease” and learn from Kim Basinger and Demi Moore.

2. The choice of music is very important. Choose a song you’ll both like and that has good rhythm to dance to. Nothing too fast – a strip is done slowly.

3. The next thing is your outfit. Sexy lingerie is a MUST, as well as high heels. What you wear above that is entirely up to you, but choose something with buttons. It gives you at least 5 extra moves and keeps the suspense. Tight pants usually are tricky to remove; my advice, go with a tight skirt.

4. Hair and Makeup is next. If you have long hair then you got to put them up so that you can let them down again in your sexy finale. Your makeup can be strong but don’t go too dark, otherwise you’ll end up looking like a transvestite.

5. Next in line is your routine and moves. Do moves that aren’t too difficult, you don’t want to loose balance or trip. IMPORTANT: practice in front of the mirror.

6. If you want you can give your strip a theme as well. But then the music, outfit, makeup and moves should all be matched to it.

7. A striptease is as the word already says it, a tease. You got to move slowly, open your shirt but don’t take it off right away. You got to play with your partner.

8. A strip is always in the hips, don’t forget that. You got to sway to the music and never stand still.

9. Use your surroundings! The wall behind you, a chair or a door jam. You can also integrate him into your strip by straddling him or by throwing him a piece of your clothing.

10. Most importantly in a striptease is to maintain eye contact. Whether it be a shy sideways glance, a coy glance from behind your shoulder or a frontal “I’ll devour you” look. He’ll never want you to stop and at the same time can’t wait for you to finish.

It’s not always easy to find time to yourself at Christmas, when you’ve got family staying or friends visiting, but with these exciting sex positions to try out, we’re sure you’ll be longing to slip away for a bit to try them out.

A Christmas Sleigh Ride

A sleigh ride for two

For a great Christmas-themed ride that will send shivers of excitement through you both, why not try this position out?

To get into position, your partner should lie on his back on the bed or floor, then you should lower yourself onto him. Rather than sitting upright, the aim is to lean backwards and rest your arms on his legs.

If you’re flexible, this will be easier, but it’s well worth trying it for the experience alone. The big bonus for women is that your man has easy access to pleasure you externally too!

Silent Night

Silent night, orgasmic night...

If you’re hosting Christmas and have people staying, or are away at friends or family yourself this year, then here’s a position that’s perfect for a quiet spot of sneaky sex.

This position doesn’t involve loads of movement or noise, so shouldn’t make the bed or floor squeak too much. Get your partner to lie on his back with his legs straight out, then slowly lower yourself onto him. First aim for a sitting position, then carefully move your legs back and lie on top of him.

Although it can be tricky getting the position right, once you’re successfully in place, it can be an intimate way of having sex. All you need are small movements, but they can feel great for both of you.

Jiggy Jingle Baubles

Jingle all the way!

Christmas wouldn’t be right without mentions of jingle bells and baubles and this is a great position for jingling his balls!

This position gives women full control and can have men begging for more – fantastic! Your man should lie on his back with his legs slightly apart, then you lower yourself down onto him, facing in the direction of his feet.

You control the pace and get perfect access to his balls for as much jingling as you desire!

Super Pleasure for Singles

And if you’re single this Christmas, then don’t despair!

It’s the perfect time to focus on yourself and bring some much needed end of year pleasure into your life. To add some variety into your self-love, then why not treat yourself to a new sex toy or two?

Never seen a Strap-on Dildo

If you’re keen to try something new, then why not have a go at using strap on dildos? Anyone can use them – men or women – and it can offer a pleasurable and exciting alternative to your usual sexual exploits. Here are our top tips for getting the most out of your strap on dildo experience!

1. Get used to wearing a strap on dildo first

If you’ve never used a strap on dildo before, then it can take a bit of time to get used to. Before you strap it on and have fun with your partner, try it on and get used to the feel of it first. For example, you may need to adjust the straps or harness to get the most comfortable fit. Once you’ve adjusted it to your requirements, you can get on with the fun of using it!

2. Use plenty of lubricant

To get the most out of using a strap on dildo, always use plenty of lubricant – this well help the dildo to slide in easily and comfortably and make the experience better for you both.

3. Pay attention to your partners needs - and their moans

Strap on dildos are only successful if both people are happy with the experience, so don’t forget to pay lots of attention to your partners needs and check that it feels good for them (if they’re moaning pleasurably, this is usually a good sign!). This is especially so when you’re using a strap on for the first time, as you want it to be comfortable.

4. Make the most of the hands-free element and use your hands

One of the big benefits of strap-on dildos is that it frees up your hands for other activities! Explore your partner’s body with your hands, especially in sensitive erogenous zones, and increase the feeling of sexual pleasure for them.

5. Don’t forget - a strap on dildo could provide double the pleasure!

For a man using a strap on dildo with a woman, another big benefit is that some strap ons can be used to double the pleasure - for both of you. Depending on the type of strap on dildo being worn, the penis could be left exposed – what a shame it would be to not make use of it too!

Here’s a video on strap-on dildos, which includes some tips as well

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