Everyone’s got a best sex song. You know, the song that really gets you in the mood, makes you feel sexy or seductive. Sometimes it’s the voice of the singer that sounds erotic and makes you want to melt, on other occasions it’s the pulsating rhythms of the music that are perfect as a backdrop for having sex.

If you want to hot up the action in your bedroom, then we’ve rounded up the six most popular sex songs to get you in the mood!

1. R Kelly – Sex Me

The slow rhythm and sensual lyrics of R Kelly’s Sex Me make is a sure fire hit for many couples. Listen to it at the beginning of an evening to get you both in the mood, or at the end of the night as you’re having sex!

2. Marvin Gaye – Sexual Healing

A classic sex song which is loved by many. If you’re in the mood for new tunes to listen to, then you’ve got to give this one a go.

In fact, Marvin is quite the king of the best sex song, with Lets Get it On  also hugely popular in the sex song stakes.

3. Usher – Seduction

Cool, sophisticated and sexy, as the name suggests, this is the song to put on if you’re trying to seduce a woman.

4. Shaggy – Hey Sexy Lady

If you’re in need of a little help with expressing your feelings, then why not let Shaggy step in with a helping hand?

He’ll be only too happy to declare how he feels when a sexy lady comes his way. If anyone’s still unsure, the video clips are worth a watch!

5. Venga Boys – Boom, Boom, Boom (I Want You In My Room)

This catchy, upbeat song could get you in the mood for some fun loving. Although some of the lyrics are slightly daft, it gets the message straight across that sex is what you’re after!

6. Between the Sheets – Isley Brothers

One for fans of old school music, this classic track by the Isley Brothers focuses on being between the sheets – you’ll both be clear about what’s on the cards after listening to this track.

What do you think of our favourites? Have you any more of your own to add to the list?

Sex or your phone?

It may sound like a bit of a daft question, but given the option of sex or a cell phone, which would you choose?

Amazingly, this was the crucial question posed in a recent survey commissioned by Samsung Mobile. The cell phone survey takes place each year to discover the relationship people have with their mobile phones and how much priority people give to their cell phones.

The results revealed that some people would willingly give up their sex lives in favour of keeping their phones.

Yes, it’s true - given the option of indulging in lots of gorgeous sex, or talking on their mobile phone, three out of 10 people chose their cell phones over sex.

When broken down, this equated to 36 per cent of women and 15 per cent of men who preferred to keep their phone, rather than indulge in sexual activities.

The cell phone users were found to spent more than three hours a day chatting on their mobiles, sending texts, or exchanging pictures or video messages.

Phone sex

Of course, phones can come in handy for sexual exploits too, so perhaps that’s what the three out of 10 people had in mind when they didn’t want to give up their cell phones?

If you’re living at a distance from your partner, or frequently need to be away on business, then indulging in a spot of phone sex can help release some frustration.

Whilst certainly not as good as the real thing, if you’re creative enough with your scenarios or use your imagination, then both phone sex partners can enjoy the experience.

Texting and being able to share photos and images via your phone can add to the experience and really liven things up.

If you are going to try phone sex, then it’s a good idea to arrange a time for it, so you’re not caught out in an awkward place when your phone suddenly rings.

It’s also an occasion where sex toys can be really helpful too, both for men and women. Sex toys, like vibrators or cock rings, can be used to enhance the pleasure and add in extra sensations where you’ll otherwise miss the presence of another person.

Mmm, tasty Viagra ice cream cocktail

It’s not unusual to feel like you could do with a little extra help on the libido front from time to time, but it is a bit strange to think of getting that help from an ice cream.

But that’s the opportunity coming to Selfridges in London later this year. An ice cream company called the Icecreamists have created a posh ice cream cocktail which is being hailed as a natural Viagra ice cream cocktail.

The Sex Pistol Libido Boosting Cocktail

The Sex Pistol chilled cocktail contains a number of herbal ingredients which effects are likened to that of the famous blue pill, Viagra. These include gingko biloba, guarana and arginine which reportedly help get the libido going, increase blood flow and improve energy levels.

The cocktail also has a shot of La Fee Absinthe to finish off the effect, which also colours part of the ice cream with a distinctive green shade.

The libido-boosting Sex Pistol ice cream cocktail is due to be on the menu at the Ultralounge in Selfridges from 10 September to 1 November 2009. Already anticipating demand, the makers say the arousing cocktail ice cream will only be available on a one per customer basis.

Boost your libido!

If you’re not in the UK or you don’t fancy waiting around to try out The Sex Pistol, there are plenty of other ways in which you can have a go at boosting your libido.

Sometimes an extra boost is needed if you’re feeling rundown, tired or recovering from illness, or simply to give your sex life a new sense of energy.

Like The Sex Pistol ice cream cocktail, there are lots of products around which make use of natural libido boosting ingredients and there are products aimed at both men and women. All it takes is a simple tablet, liquid or even a cream and your sexual performance could be boosted in minutes!

For women, for example, specially formulated natural herbal creams are available. Easy and quick to use, you just rub the cream on and it quickly creates a sexual response.

Interested? Check out the Sex Toys Bible sexual performance category for plenty of libido-boosting pills and potions.

Yes, oh yes!

One woman in Britain has made legal history – for being the first person ever to be imprisoned for having noisy sex.

The 48-year-old woman from Tyne and Wear, in the north of England, gained the dubious honour of being jailed for her loud sexual activities after breaking an anti-social behaviour order, or ASBO. She apparently enjoyed indulging in lengthy three hour sex sessions in the privacy of her own home, with her husband, which neighbours claimed were noisy and disturbing.

Early risers - in all departments

She gained the ASBO after her neighbours made 250 complaints about the amount of sexual moaning and other loud noises she produced whilst having sex with her husband. Her neighbours complained about the noise of moaning, groaning, shouting, screaming in ecstacy and the sound of a bed banging against the wall, which typically occurred in the early mornings.

Is it usual for ASBOs to be given for sex?

Normally ASBOs are reserved for anti-social behaviour such as playing loud music or causing a disturbance in certain areas, so it’s pretty unusual for one to be given for having sex at home. After all, a lot of people do make noises – often without realising it - whilst enjoying sex.According to the rules of the sex ASBO given to her, she should have avoiding ‘making excessive noise’ anywhere in England for four years.

Ooooh, yes, yes, YES!

However, the rules of the ASBO didn’t put her off, and less than two days after it was made, she broke it in style with more full on and noisy sex. After being arrested on three occasions over a period of 10 days, she was finally jailed for breaking her sexual noise ASBO.

It’s normal and natural for some noise to be involved when you’re having sex, and can it make the whole process a lot more exciting for both partners. It’s no wonder the neighbours didn’t enjoy the act quite so much, especially since they tended to perform in the early hours of the morning, but it must be tricky to determine the exact level involved in disturbing sexual cries and screams.

So, how noisy do you get when you’re having sex? And could you be at risk from a sexual ASBO for the noise you make?

Breast sizes are getting bigger!

If you’re a fan of larger ladies, then you could be in luck! According to researchers in Australia, the average bust size of women has increased by nearly 40% in the last five years, with more women now buying a cup size of DD or higher.

Lingerie research reveals boom in bust size

It’s true – research by lingerie companies has revealed that sales of DD and larger lingerie has dramatically increased over the last five years. Back in the 1950s, the most frequently bought bras were a size B cup – that’s three sizes less than a DD. Women’s breasts today are getting so much larger that companies are having to make larger sized lingerie. Many companies offer products with cup sizes of G and J, and some are even making bras with a cup size K!

Why have breast sizes increased?

Amongst the reasons cited for the increase in women’s bust sizes and cleavages (other than breast enlargements) are the use of contraceptive pills, artificial hormones and an increase in fatty tissue. In addition to the lingerie companies, surgeons say they’re seeing more women who have naturally larger breasts who want slight breast reductions.

The benefits of lingerie for larger ladies

With lingerie products increasing in size, it’s great news for larger ladies, as more sexy lingerie options are available. In fact, many of the products look even better on a plus sized woman, as they accentuate the best bits of the body and lingerie wearers get to celebrate their curves and look great for their partner!

The baby doll

The classic baby doll, which is often made from lightweight, silky material or lace, is a perfect choice for sexy large ladies who want to show off their ample busts. Comfortable to wear, and great on the eye, the baby doll is one form of lingerie that never goes out of fashion.

The corset and bustier

For women wanting to draw attention to their breasts even more (or for partners who want to encourage it), then the corset or bustier is the perfect choice. Designed to get attention to the upper body, both corsets and bustiers help provide a smooth, slim-line effect, pushing the breasts up and out.